Thanks to you all and My own devices/thinking, I have this figured out!
Project Requisites:
Flash chip $100 or less
Soldering tools $150-200?
Forceware SB6141 1.4-mod2 $95
ARM System of enterprise grade to develop custom SB6190 firmware on $800-$1000
METHOD #2:
Forceware SB6141 1.4-mod $95 to learn what to mod in the firmware
PAY FOR SERVICE! $x (finding out today)
Sniff how a firmware update is pushed
$1000 or less for custom firmware developed by Me
Write software to push it
I AM HAPPY TO FINANCE ALL OF THIS MYSELF SWEETHEARTS
If you want to contribute PayPal to colin.a@gmail.com with a note as to why you're sending Me money! I'll give you priority tech support whenever I can 
Project Requisites:
Flash chip $100 or less
Soldering tools $150-200?
Forceware SB6141 1.4-mod2 $95
ARM System of enterprise grade to develop custom SB6190 firmware on $800-$1000
METHOD #2:
Forceware SB6141 1.4-mod $95 to learn what to mod in the firmware
PAY FOR SERVICE! $x (finding out today)
Sniff how a firmware update is pushed
$1000 or less for custom firmware developed by Me
Write software to push it
I AM HAPPY TO FINANCE ALL OF THIS MYSELF SWEETHEARTS
If you want to contribute PayPal to colin.a@gmail.com with a note as to why you're sending Me money! I'll give you priority tech support whenever I can
-C. Colin Applegate
NSA Director GSA35,0
CEO Comcast Cable
CEO Applegate Consulting LLC
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