Like I said, I didn't do any of this, I paid someone to set it up for me and my brother fucked everything up, I appreciate the help from all of you though. Drewmerc, I will try your methods ASAP and post back!
Also, is this the adapter you are referring to? http://www.amazon.com/MAX232-RS232-Conve...B00471S6MC
Also, is this the adapter you are referring to? http://www.amazon.com/MAX232-RS232-Conve...B00471S6MC